Rich single men often find that dating is more difficult for them. Some people just want money while others want nothing to do with the money. There are also some people who fetishize the money. In order to get the most from a Tinder date, wich single men need to make a great first impression but you also need to filter out who contacts you. Plus, just like everyone else, you will find that there are rich men with just about every interest. You need to find someone that meets your specific interests.
There isn't just one thing that you can do. A lot of different factors come into play. Many of them are related to you. We are going to take a look at some of the things that rich men should do or not do when Tinder dating to make the first best impression.
One thing to keep in mind is that Tinder isn't a platform just for rich men. You will encounter a lot of people when you are Tinder dating. It is often the best plan to mention nothing about money right away. Talking about money can cause one or more of the following issues:
This won't always happen but all four of those situations are common. We recommend not mentioning being a rich single man until after the first date. To help facilitate this pick somewhere middle of the way financially when picking a location for the first date.
Because Tinder is not full of rich people, a profile that shows off wealth may come off as a fake profile. This is true about a lot of dating sites. Perfect pictures can come off the same way.
When dating a lot of people from all levels of wealth feel as if they must be who others expect them to be. To make a good first impression it is key to be yourself. It is easy to tell when someone is faking it. If you build a relationship based on faking it, you are setting that relationship up for failure right off the bat.
You can also think of it this way: you wouldn't want a person you are going out with to be faking it, so be genuine for your potential partners.
Deciding who will pay for the first date can be pretty difficult. Because you don't want to come off as a jerk it can be helpful that you don't assume that you are going to pay for the date. Find a way to politely ask whether or not you are going to pay or split the cost of the date. This is especially true if your match knows that you are wealthy.
You are probably ready to pay as a rich single man but that doesn't matter. If she wants to contribute to the bill, let her. Most women don't like it when you show off your money.
This can be simplified as using tact when it comes to your money.
No one wants to go on a date with a boring person. At the same time, getting rich isn't easy. Most rich single men put in a lot of hard work to get where they are and to stay there. This isn't a bad thing but you want to be more than your work. Have activities that you enjoy, shows you like, hobbies you can discuss, the music you like, etc. Also, be prepared with a list of questions to ask so the conversation isn't one-sided.
For anyone dating, it can be helpful to come up with a collection of talking points before the date. You may not need them but it is better to be prepared than having awkward silence. Just make sure that your date doesn't see your list of talking points. It may come off the wrong way. It may be best to memorize your points.
Just like it is important to be an interesting person, you need to come alive on the date. Talking about things that will humanize you and make you sound interesting is great. In many cases, this means focusing on topics that aren't dry. But another part of this is to have topics that mean something to you.
A great example of this is your kids. If you have kids and your Tinder date is aware of it, try talking about them. Our kids tend to bring out our love and passion both in our voice and body language. Just make sure not to bring up your ex. Your ex will be an almost immediate conversation stopper. If you are asked about her, you can briefly answer but move the topic on to something else more positive.
Again, rich single men are busy and we know it. A date isn't the time to be on your phone. Not only do you need to keep your mind on the date but you need to show it. Pulling out your phone shows that you don't have much interest in what is happening around you.
Turn off your phone as you get to your date. Some women may even be impressed by taking that small step. It shows that you are more interested in her than whatever else may be going on in your life. If you cannot turn your phone off, at least put it in do not disturb mode and allow it to the only ring for those that are most important to you, your kids for example.
The only time you should pull your phone out during a date is if you are looking something up for the date or you are sharing photos with your date. Even then, try to limit the number of times that your phone comes out of your pocket. You are there to make new memories, not think about the old ones.
We wanted to end the article with a very important dating tip, one that should be followed no matter who you are. Man, woman, rich, not, and anywhere in between. Do not drink too much.
If you are going on a date, limit it to one or two drinks. You can also follow your Tinder date's lead. Don't try to outdrink your partner. This can come off wrong. It may be hard if you are having a good time but focus on the drink that you have in front of you and slowly enjoy it.
Tinder dating for rich single men is different. As we have addressed, there are a number of factors that you want to consider. One of the biggest things you need to keep in mind is your mind. Keep your mind in the game as you date. If something comes up that we didn't address here, don't overthink anything. Do what your heart tells you. You are Tinder dating for fun after all.